Everything needs food or fuel to grow.
Even a simple thought will become a raging source of need if we start feeding it. Positive and Negative, both alike. What we feed will grow. The question is; what is growing in our heart?
Pursuit of freedom is exactly that! It is the pursuit of being free from restrictive mind patterns which hold us in bondage. Victimization refuses to accept personal responsibility. It is ALWAYS some one else or some other issue which makes us respond the way we do. In many circumstances, the answer lays within the thought. Feed it and it will grow.
What is your self-talk like?
What are you believing?
What actions are coming from your reaction?
Truth or lie, they both need food.